Don't let em' tell you how to live your life.

judgement - an opinion formed by judging something

But sometimes or rather, most of the time, these opinions are not nice ones at all. I mean, yes, we're all human so we are BOUND to judge but why do unto others what you don't want to be done unto you?Seriously? You may be wondering, "Don't you judge others too?"
The answer is, "Yes, I do. I'm only human, I'm not perfect. I'd be lying if I said I'd NEVER judged anyone before and don't do it anymore."

BUT, I try my best to minimize it nowadays because having gone through the experience of being judged myself and coming across other situations in which other people have been judged as well so yeah, I know how it feels to be judged. It sucks.
It's like you can't be yourself because you're so afraid of what people may think and/or tell other people about you. You don't want other people to have bad impressions of you just because of what one person thinks. I know; I know what it means, how it feels and the fact that I'm not the only one who feels this way.

But honestly, you should not care about what others say and think; really. I know it's easier said than done. These comments are bound to get to you but try your best to not let it affect you too much. Why not take it as positive criticism to help improve yourself or just treat it as a passing remark made by someone whose words cannot and should not be taken seriously. People say things about you because they're jealous. They want to be like you but can't so therefore, they resort to ruining your name instead so they can rise higher than you. It's all really stupid if you ask me. It really is.

I let such things get to me before and honestly, those 2 years of happiness that I let go to waste, is one of my biggest regrets. I mean, it's like, you're only young ONCE so why ruin a portion of it by succumbing to something that would just utterly upset you? It's NOT worth it; trust me.

Why should others' opinions of you, matter to you? What should matter is what YOU think of YOURSELF. Other people are ignorant. Who would know you better than you know yourself?
Even if it seems like the whole world is judging you, trust me, there'll be at least one person who won't; who will truly stick by you and won't judge you like the rest. Maybe you've already found this person or maybe you haven't. Either way, it's ok cause good things come to those who wait so don't give up hope so easily, alright? :-) To those who are facing such situations, you're not alone so chin up, it's not the end of the world.




To those who are wondering why I'm suddenly ranting about this topic, hah, you don't really need to know ;-))